To be honest, those baby on board stickers are pretty dumb. Nobody goes “This car doesn’t have a baby on board, awesome, now I can break check them like a maniac”.
Hilariously, that’s not the point. I definitely thought that too, until I learned that it’s actually so first responders see the sticker, and know to look for a baby when the driver might not be in condition to inform them.
Kinda crazy to think of how many misconceptions we’re all under.
Sure sure, but I know for a fact that every single parent I’ve met that has that sticker, absolutely did not get it for that reason, and just thought it was “cute”
YOU’RE under. I got it all figured out.
I for one never doubted you for a second.
Yes, but only out of morbid curiosity.
This bumper sticker sounds a surefire way to attract the thin-skinned ICE brutes to your car…
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I think a lot of people doing the funny haha suicidal ideation thing forget that it’s entirely within their power to opt-out of life if they really mean it.
Edit: and the evidence that you’re still here would happily indicate that you don’t truly mean it. So could you all please just cut it out?
I think everyday dread is a real thing. It differs from actually wanting to end it all, but settling for a meaningless, dull and sad existence isn’t really living either.
Edit: and the evidence that you’re still here would happily indicate that you don’t truly mean it. So could you all please just cut it out?
Spoken like someone who has never had to deal with those thoughts.
As someone who has to deal with them semi-regularly, there are people around me that I want to hurt less than I want to end my own suffering. Plenty of us would absolutely welcome the sweet releasee, but we’re not willing to do so for personal reasons. That in no way ‘indicate(s) that you don’t truly mean it’, it just means people have other reasons not to go through with it.
So maybe you can just suffer in silence like we do most of the time instead of pretending you know what anyone feels?
Spoken like someone who has never had to deal with those thoughts.
Nice baseless assumption fuckboy.
For those unfamiliar, those are anti-depressants and anti-anxiety meds. Mine.
I’ve already spouted my personal psychological issues across other comments. I’m so sorry that I didn’t take the time to qualify my statement with an essay about my personal bullshit here.
I’m truly sorry about what you’re going through. If you feel that way then you aren’t getting the help you need. Notably, you also already have your clear reason not to end it. You should focus on that and work to build more reasons not to instead of getting pissy at an internet stranger for calling people out on glorification of suicide.
To put this as simple as fucking possible, in incredibly vague and simplistic terms (that are still true by personal fucking experience)
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Repeated self talk about how you don’t want to be alive and the like isn’t going to help you or anyone else who is having these feelings. It reinforces those thought patterns that you clearly already understand are not healthy.
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Being able to identify when you are having those disordered thoughts and doing your best to turn away from them helps reinforce against those patterns. It gets easier over time.
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Posting suicidal ideation content into the void of the internet does not ultimately help you or others with handling or moving past those feelings
There is value in knowing you’re not alone in your feelings, and humor reaches farther than other means, sure. But the internet as a whole is clearly far past that point, and I’m getting increasingly more exhausted sitting by and watching this shit be normalized.
I’ve been living with ADHD my whole life (close to 35 years now). Depression (officially) for around 15. Anxiety for around a decade.
There’s at least a five year span of my life that effectively isn’t there. There’s still a small voice in the back of my head afraid I’ll either wake up one morning and be back there, or I’ll come back to my senses and find that the past decade has been all delusion as my car is plummeting off the local bridge or into oncoming traffic lanes from what was a constant battle every day not to just fucking do it.
And I’m not talking about the relatively “normal” time sink from the covid lockdowns.
I have a mental list of various options for how I’d do it if it came to it, backed by actual fucking research. I did back then too, and was fucked up enough to not care anymore about the hurt to those around me or the potential pain to myself from doing it in a dumb as hell way like a traffic accident. Good way to end up still alive but crippled physically and financially for the rest of your life.
Anyway.
One of the hardest things to accept is that there is some logic and soundness to the dumbasses saying “have you just tried not being x?”.
It’s not that simple, true. People who don’t have these issues will never understand, true. It will be some of the most unrewarding, soul draining shit you’ve ever attempted, and there’s no shame if you can’t get there yet or if you can’t do it on your own.
But here’s the worst part: they aren’t entirely wrong.
You build your healthy coping mechanisms and your psychological toolkit to fight against this shit through constant neverending effort to work against the bad internal shit. The more you work against it, the stronger those tools get. Eventually, like repeated practice of martial arts or musical instruments over years, the things that took concious effort will begin to become unconcious. The equivalent of mental muscle memory, for lack of a phrase for it that doesn’t sound silly.
You’ll stumble. You’ll fail. You’ll have to start back over from what feels like (and may actually be) square one. But that work against it is ultimately the core of any way you’re going to be able to keep moving forward.
It will never be as simple as “just don’t be sad, lol”, but some aspect of your journey out of it will have to come from personal effort to not be what you are today.
On top of all that?
This isn’t even an actually funny joke about not wanting to exist anymore. “haha, I don’t want to live anymore even though they do! Rofl lmao.”
Boo! Get some better material.
THIS IS A SHIT POSTING SUB!
Suicidal ideation isn’t a joke, fuckface.
We need shitposts, not shit posts.
TL;DR.
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This isn’t even an actually funny joke about not wanting to exist anymore. “haha, I don’t want to live anymore even though they do! Rofl lmao.”
Who’s joking fuckboi? I don’t want to be here anymore, but I care about those who do. So kindly fuck off.
Then you do, in fact, want to be here. So fuck off with the bullshit and accept that you’ve decided you’re here for the ride.
This isn’t tough and the tldr is my first post, but you’re clearly more interested in wallowing in it than moving past your disordered thinking.
I hope you know that you’re no better than the people who tell us to ‘just stop being sad’ or ‘depression isn’t that bad, I get sad sometimes and just get over it’. I would hope you’re self aware enough to see how shitty you come across, but I won’t hold my breath.
Then you do, in fact, want to be here.
Man, this is why I hate people like you. Because you have to put your own feelings into someone else and tell them how they feel. You don’t know shit about turds.
So fuck off with the bullshit and accept that you’ve decided you’re here for the ride.
How about you fuck off yourself? Just because I don’t want to hurt someone by my actions, that doesn’t mean I want to be here, and saying that is so fucking ignorant and exactly why I said what I said the first time. You may be on similar meds as I am, but you can go fuck yourself with a rusty drill if you think that means you know what I’m going through or how I feel.
This isn’t tough and the tldr is my first post, but you’re clearly more interested in wallowing in it than moving past your disordered thinking.
Same for this. You don’t know me, what I’m doing or what I’m going through. Just because I don’t want to be alive doesn’t mean I’m wallowing in my thinking or not trying to move past it. I don’t control my thoughts, only my actions. Maybe you need to take that to heart and shut the fuck up about what you don’t know.
But I will take part of your advice and not wallow in the stupid thoughts of idiots speaking out of their ass. Good day.
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I also joke about doing your mom. But we all know that jokes are pretend. I’d much rather rail your dad.
Where’s this answer coming from and what does it accomplish? 🙄
It comes from the fact that the person I was replying to is basically saying to people who are possibly suicidal " you’re not serious because you’re not doing it."
Which is a very dick thing to say.
He’s right though, as someone who has actually come close to it. We should take suicidal ideation and tries as something really serious and not to be joked about unless you already bought the toaster. It’s not just in poor taste, but it’s also childish. You appreciate life, obviously, you’re just whining and being dramatic, you’ll forget about this feeling in 30 mins when you’re wanking…
People with trauma sometimes deal with it through gallows humor. That’s not childish.
You make too much sense, those downvotes were inevitable, lol.
