I just sort of consider these “after-losses”, they’re the losses that come in the hours and days after a significant loss, the one we know and consider when we lost, “this time”.
We can both reset our clocks now I suppose, but in the end it will never be more accurate than “oh it’s been months” or “I haven’t thought of that in a long time”, “maybe a few years”, “nearly a decade”
So we can keep time from the date of the inciting incident I think
I’m like a month late to this, but…you’re TRACKING IT!? Do you have a spreadsheet?
Just sort of, mental bookmark
No, I just keep track of the last time I lost it. Fuck. Just lost again.
I just sort of consider these “after-losses”, they’re the losses that come in the hours and days after a significant loss, the one we know and consider when we lost, “this time”.
We can both reset our clocks now I suppose, but in the end it will never be more accurate than “oh it’s been months” or “I haven’t thought of that in a long time”, “maybe a few years”, “nearly a decade”
So we can keep time from the date of the inciting incident I think